The tragic lack of negative feedback on personality (considered harmful)

Created: 8 Dec 2018 | Importance: 7/10

A huge number of people are just a few honest sentences away from a much better life. Sadly, most of them will likely never get this feedback, because no one dares. Yet, imagine (I don't pretend that the following formulations are appropriate. It's obviously always really hard, depends a lot on who would say it, on the person's receptivity, etc):

(Note that in these examples, the life of everyone else knowing the person concerned also gets better).

Solutions I can think of: